Leavenworthy: Winter Edition

What did Wes really want for his birthday?  Traditionally, we go to Leavenworth for two nights, to play in the snow, enjoy the Christmas lights (they don’t take theirs down until February, either), and maybe eat enough gingerbread cookies to last us until our next visit.  This year, he had a twist: he wanted to bring along his best friend, A. That actually sounded good to us, as we like our island friends very much.  Once we found a house for the 13 of us on a 3 day weekend (thanks end-of-semester teacher work day!), we booked it and started counting down to one of my favorite weekends of the year. 
It was us and the two Whidbey families we spend so much time with, all under one roof with plenty of food, VR, chess, and snow.  I had a book and good friends, and my children were all well entertained, a recipe for a great weekend.

Once we were settled in, we took off looking for a good sledding hill.   
V is hardly terrified at all!

Wesley sees this and thinks, “What shall I aim for in an entire field of snow?  Oh, yes, definitely the thin ice.”

“Nailed it!”

Daddy.

Daddy, Daddy?

Daddy!!

A doesn’t need no stinkin’ sled.

I still haven’t ever seen this girl afraid.  She had a pretty cool move where she was able to slide right between her dad’s legs…with a surprising deficit of damage. 

Fearless and beautiful!

It’s hard to beat Kyla when it comes to sheer joy–even landing 20 feet from her sled.

Yep, the lovely, lovely house had a hot tub.

The next day’s adventure was began with an “escape room in the box” that was so much fun…even when we discovered Clue 4 & 5 were missing.  That afternoon, we were ready to work our bodies instead of our minds.  This was the first time cross country skiing for the 5 kids (the youngest one stayed back with his parents) and the rest of us had only gone a few times before.  

 I could do this sport all winter–it is so fun to trek through the snow!  We started late and pushed the kids about 6 or 7 of the 8km of the trail, leaving them at a trailhead to pick up, as it was getting dark.  

 

 The sheer pleasure of the fun exercise coupled with the beautiful scenery by the hatchery was one of the weekend’s highlights for me.   

 

 We didn’t want to leave the next day.

 So we didn’t.  Well, not until we went out for brats, played in the snow some more, completely fell apart (Piper), and recovered with one last stop at the Gingerbread Factory. 

 

Yep, once again proving that Leavenworth can get even better with friends!


Happy Birthday Wes! And Piper! and Taryn!

Happy Birthday, Wes!  My youngest is now double digits, and here’s hoping his brain is catching up.  I strongly remember being ten and becoming very aware of my own thinking; so much so that I told myself I may not believe myself when I was older, so I made a deliberate memory that I still keep of how important this age is.  

To celebrate as a family, we prioritized efficiency. Of the 7 “Kousins”, 4 have August birthdays* and the other 3 are January/February.  We hosted the Winter birthdays with brunch and birthday cake.  This year, one of the kids suggested crepes, and I found them surprisingly easy to do. We had both savory and sweet, and the kids quickly gobbled up the quart of whipping cream we had. #NotMyMetabolismAnymore
Food only goes so far. The real party is when most of the grown ups left, leaving the cousins to play for approximately 12 hours, and that’s only because the two littles have real bedtimes, and so went back to Gramma’s.  The girls snuggled up with a movie and the boys loved Legos and Minecraft. 



Dwayne and I got the pleasure of hanging out with Brian and Sandi for the day– so easy to chat with and just be together

Piper gave Wes the Minecraft creeper stuffed animal she knitted for him. 


Wes and Parker have identical Spiderman guys and hoody jammies–for boys so different (as in Parker has not made his mother seriously reconsider her life choices), they make the most of what they have in common.  Cecily is quite happy to not be them, but can move easily between the boys and the girls.  

Happy Birthday, Winters!  We’ll do this again next year. 

*counting Sept. 1 as August 32st, of course

Last Day of Being 9 Years Old

Which means that I have no more kids in the single-digits after today, but I really, really, REALLY like kids old enough to do fun things with…or better yet, leave them at home while doing fun things, so I’m not feeling particularly morose at this milestone.  That would be mining a shallow field. 

This kid has a few issues, but boy, can he balance on anything!  The balance ball is so beloved that he has a name: Frederick.  Frederick will carry Wes anywhere and helps him get through daily math lessons.  

 

Bye-bye age 9!  I think you will love being 10 almost as much as I did! (I still remember it being my favorite age.)

Snow Beautiful!

Schools were closed Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, but luckily, when your mom is your teacher, you don’t ever have to have a Snow Day!  (But I gave myself one on Monday.)


I pulled a Dwayne on this one and got them to go back outside 3 times, saying I wasn’t able to get a good shot.  Hopefully, it will be a few years before they read this post.  Kyla’s only to the early school years on her tour through our blog, so I’ve got time.
 

And this is why my, ahem, winter lights stay up so long. Yes, I don’t want the work of taking them down, but my excuse is because if there’s a chance of snow, my snowflake lights should still be on the pergola.  

And the birds.  We have both a hummingbird feeder and a regular bird feeder outside the kitchen window, and I enjoy seeing the winged traffic outside.  

Power stayed on and the kids were back on track by Thursday, and we won’t be around to make up any days this June, so let it snow!

Starting 2020 at the Cabin

We never make it out to the cabin as much as I want to, but after having paying guests regularly these holidays, we finally got to spend the first weekend at the cabin before regular life starts on Monday. 

One of the highlights for me was taking the kids on a walk through the trails at Castle Park.  And when I say “kids”, I should clarify that I wound up with only the kids I wanted to claim at the time. Just as we arrived at the park, Dwayne texted me to say he was driving off the ferry and heading toward the cabin. Simultaneously, I asked which kid had brought their communication device (smart phone, flip phone, GPS watch) with them: dead, no, nope.  So I said they couldn’t stay at the park while I went for a long walk; they had to come with me.  The girls were fine with it, but Wes began.  Began what?  Began being Whiney Wes.  To the mother that has had No Break from him since we started home schooling, and Extra No Break during the school holiday.  I called Dwayne and said his son was waiting for him in the parking lot, and he should come get him while the girls and I went for walk.  And Wes preferred being abandoned over walking through the forest.  

But my dragonets enjoyed the trails and can make anything into a parkour track. Kyla wears her Halloween dragon horns when she thinks of it, and I love her more for it.  Being wild and feral is part of Piper’s nature, and she gave me lots of encouragement for my single pull up I attempt each time we find ourselves at a playground.  
Now that Dwayne was at the cabin, so was our brand new VR headsets.  The cabin is not quite big enough for this, but between us and 3 other families, we had a lot of fun breaking them in. Hm, I meant the sets, but it’s pretty easy for a goggled person to hit someone walking by in the close quarters, so we all got broke. 

Luckily, there were cookies, blocks, and Minecraft to offer variety. 

 Oh, I love my cabin.  I wish I could go more often!

Happy New Year! Plunging into 2020

Doing slight introspection, I realized what I don’t like about Polar Bear dives is that they are crowded, so you have to park further away and walk–in winter, toward water, returning wet.  And there’s lots of people, and waiting around, and anticipation of a whistle at exactly the right time. This made me unenthusiastic about Double Bluff, or Kirkland, or Seattle, or Edmonds.

But there’s also a lake nearby our house.  With parking spots very close to the water.  And no official Polar Jump (though an unofficial one, perhaps of loosely connected Gold’s Gym members, judging by hoodies and duffles), so no crowds.  And a dock to jump off instead of trekking over yucky, rocky beach and shallows, inching our way to hypothermia.

So we picked up Piper and her BFF and headed over.  All the kids were enthusiastic about the jump and Dwayne was equally enthusiastic about not jumping. My lucky bikini made its annual trip out of the house and the towels were fresh out of the dryer.

While we were aiming for noon, it was a little more like 12:10 when we lined up and…..

JUMPED!
Well, Wes changed his mind. He preferred a slow walk in over the immediate terror and breathlessness of a plunge. And then he decided it’s more fun to stay warm and dry. Odd. 
Piper was amazing. Wes looks like he’s climbing out, too, but he’s just literally getting his toes wet.

BFF was just as enthusiastic, and a great sport.


Kyla is the reason I didn’t chicken out or even hesitate–she grabbed my hand when we were ready to jump!

What’s the deal about Polar Bear dives?  Well, it’s January 1st and the year can only get better from here.  And in an election year, that’s not a small consideration…

End of the Year Cleaning

I have found no way to work with Wesley all day on his room without finishing the day grouchy and tired enough to drown out any sense of accomplishment.  Thus it was today, but we are ending the year with less stuff in the house.

This is mostly clean–


This is fully cleaned, sorted, organized:

I finally got smart this time. I washed every single piece of clothing anywhere in his room. [Wes is happy to throw muddy socks in with clean shirts, and clean clothes on his shelves and dirty clothes in his dresser.] While all the washing/drying was happening, I let him have 30 minutes of screen time in exchange for 30 minutes of clothes-trying on later.  
One problem I have is that when I see him wearing pants that are too short and holey, I make a mental note to take them out of circulation next time I do laundry. But since all his pants are gray sweats, I lose track.  This time, as he tried on every piece, it went either into the dresser or into the donation bag.  And since everything was clean and dry, it can leave the house as soon as Goodwill opens in the 2020.  We significantly lessened his wardrobe, and now have only things that fit AND he will wear.  I surrendered and got rid of all the button up shirts I have ever bought him, even the cozy flannel ones.  He simply won’t wear buttons, especially has his idea of dressing up is not wearing PJs.  He has a sweater my mom knitted for him years ago that he throws over whatever slouchy clothes he’s wearing that day and considers himself well-dressed.  

That boy. Oh, boy.

Audible Stats


We win Audible! Kyla’s listening makes up the majority of the stats, but here’s what this year’s numbers are:

Total Hours Listened:  2,212 hours (there are 8,760 hours in a year, almost 6,000 waking hours).

Library of Approximately 250 titles.

Number of strongly worded letters encouraging Audible to make a shelving system so we can organize our library: 3.



Number of times that has worked: 0.



Denise’s 10, I Mean 11, Favorite Books in 2019

Denise’s 10 11 Favorite Books in 2019
[With the agreement that a series counts as one]
I can’t list them in true order, books just make it either in my Top Ten or they don’t.
1.     I’ll Be Your Blue Sky, by Marisa de los Santos.  Her first two books, Love Walked In and Belong to Me, are perennial favorites, so when she checked in on her characters a decade later, I swooned.  Blue Sky made me love the first two books even more.  She digs into complicated yet familiar situations and tells a compelling story that feels more like you are living it than reading it.  I try not to have favorites on my favorites list, but this may be it.
 2.     Legends of the First Empire hexology, by Michael J. Sullivan
Age of Legend (Book 4)
Age of Death(Book 5, pentultimate)—to be published Feb, 2020, but I got it early through Kickstarter.
I have brought up Michael once or thrice.  Amazing stories, strong female characters, dragons, magic, humor…legendary!

3.     A Dangerous Collaboration (A Veronica Speedwell Mystery Book 4), by Deanna Raybourn. Oh my, I love Veronica.  Raybourn made a name for herself with the Lady Jane Grey series (Denise’s expert opinion—meh), but that was really just training ground for writing a truly excellent frolic.  Read these in order. 
4.      Once Upon a River, by Diane Setterfield.  I just gobbled this one up, once I recognized the author from her debut novel, The Thirteenth Tale, which thrilled and intoxicated me.  (Editorial: her second novel was underwhelming, after setting the bar very high with her first.)  This, her third novel, clears the bar with room to spare.  When a story teller writes about story tellers and story telling, she has to do it well, and this author used the river to weave it together beautifully and movingly.  

 [I discovered Sherry Thomas this year, and it’s worth reading her older novels to see how she goes from better-than-average regency romance author to author extraordinaire, as she tackles a new take on Sherlock Holmes and a Young Adult SciFi/Fantasy frolic.] 
5.     The Lady Sherlock Series, by Sherry Thomas
A Study in Scarlet Women, Book 1
A Conspiracy in Belgravia, Book 2
The Hollow of Fear, Book 3
The Art of Theft, Book 4 (Barely About the Book Review: Sadly, Ash keeps his clothes on in this installment, but Charlotte never disappoints. Worse than a new complex evil scheme to unravel, she is in France with Maximum Tolerable Chins. Oh, dear!)
Oh, wow, I can’t tell you how much I like Lady Charlotte.  Besides excellent plot and characters, there are so many highlight-worthy lines sprinkled in the prose.  One should gobble this series up.
6.     The Elemental Trilogy, by Sherry Thomas
The Burning Sky, Book 1
The Perilous Sea, Book 2
The Immortal Heights, Book 3
This trilogy has me hooked in the first 100 words.  Check out the prologue to this trilogy—might be my favorite start to a book ever. 
7.      Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine, by Gail Honeyman.  This and the next one made lots of booklists this year. The story is a bit odd, because Eleanor is, but if we read fiction not only for enjoyment but also to experience the depths of the human experience, this one is a must read.  And an ENORMOUS one sentence twist at the end that made my heart stop.
8.     Where the Crawdads Sing, by Delia Owens. A debut novel that made the fiction world stand up and take notice (and gave me hope that I have a few more decades before I have to write a best selling novel). This one I finished and immediately wanted to talk to someone about it.  Really excellent.



[Brandon Sanderson is, fortunately, a prolific and masterful storyteller.  He brilliantly creates entire universes and original characters. I resisted reading him for so long, but his name showed up on every list that includes the best of the best: Patrick Rothfuss, Michael J. Sullivan, Jim Butcher.  I made up for lost time in 2019.]
9.     Starsight series, by Brandon Sanderson
Skyward, Book 1
Starsight, Book 2
10.   The Reckoners trilogy, by Brandon Sanderson
Steelheart, Book 1
Firefight, Book 2
Calamity, Book 3

11.     Stormlight series, will supposedly be 10 books long, and at 1200 pages per book…gulp, by Brandon Sanderson
The Way of Kings – Kaladin’s flashbacks.
Words of Radiance – Shallan’s flashbacks.
Oathbringer – Dalinar’s flashbacks.
Best in Nonfiction (I didn’t read that much nonfiction this year, but I went for important, if not pleasant).
Equipped for Reading Success, by David A. Kilpatrick. Kilpatrick is a god in the dyslexia world and science of reading.  I was able to immediately put into practice excellent phonological practices with Wesley.  All K-2 teachers should access this text and all excellent 3-12th graders should understand his work.  I finally *got* orthographic mapping.
She Said: Breaking the Sexual Harassment Story That Helped Ignite a Movement, by Jodi Kantor and Megan Twohey.  A super important read but not a fun one.  I couldn’t quite make it through the last section on Dr. Blasey Ford’s testimony—too soon and ulcer inducing. (I absolutely believe Dr. BF, hence the ulcers.)
Unbelievable: The Story of Two Detectives’ Relentless Search for the Truth, by T. Christian Miller and Ken Armstrong.  Ugh, also too horrible in concept, but the writing was straight forward and clear, telling the true tale of a too-clever serial rapist.  The lasting damage done to an already damaged young women just aged out of the foster system was make even more painful for being a local case.  My ulcer is acting up just remembering it.  But again, too important to let the discomfort of reading to
The Knowledge Gap: The Hidden Cause of America’s Broken Education System–and How to Fix It, by Wexler, Natalie. When I started homeschooling Wes, I adopted the Core Knowledge curriculum.  It’s free online (though I pay to have the workbooks and readers printed for me, but save money by accessing the online teacher’s text).  I love CKLA because it uses explicit instruction to teacher Language Arts and focuses on knowledge—history, science, geography, in addition to a wide variety of genres withing decodable readers. I’m a HUGE fan of teaching knowledge, so I was the choir that smugly picked up hymnal.  She argues for a knowledge-based curriculum over skills-based, and that sounds counter intuitive at first, but I could bore you to death about it in person.  First of all, think of it as a chicken-and-egg problem.  Which comes first: background knowledge so you understand what you are reading, or reading to build your background knowledge?  The answer: yes.  
Educated: A memoir, by Tara Westover. Possibly the most poignant and painful book I read this year.  Kyla listened to it on Audible first, and had I read it first, I wouldn’t have forbidden her to read it, but probably would have cautioned her to wait years and years.  Bill Gates had it on his 2018 recommended reads.

 

Honorable Mentions:

The Nickel Boys, by Colson Whitehead
The Night Tiger, by Yangsze Choo
Before Green Gables, by Budge Wilson
The Rosie Result (Don Tillman Book 3), by Graeme Simsion
When the Men Were Gone, by Marjorie Herrera Lewis
The Ocean at the End of the Lane, by Neil Gaiman
The Good Luck Girls of Shipwreck Lane: A Novel and The Overdue Life of Amy Bylerby Kelly Harms
*You Can Thank Me Later (novella) by Kelly Harms, but I think only available in Audible.  I think she finally wrote an excellent story, and not just cotton candy that faded on the last page.
Tween and Teen, Worth a Read:
*Counting by 7s, by Holly Goldberg Sloan
*Forever, or a Long, Long Time, by Caela Carter
The Many Reflections of Miss Jane Deming, by Coats, J. Anderson
Far from the Tree, by Robin Benway
A Boy Called Bat, by Elana K. Arnold
**The Pumpkin War, by Cathleen Young
The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round Things, by Carolyn Mackler
Eight Keys, by LaFleur, Suzanne M.
Meh Books:  I did the reading so you don’t have to
The Gentleman’s Guide to Vice and Virtue(Montague Siblings Book 1), by Mackenzie Lee
The Lady’s Guide to Petticoats and Piracy(Montague Siblings #2), by  Mackenzi Lee
Tomboy: A Graphic Memoir, by Liz Prince
All Summer Long, by Hope Larson
**How I Became A Ghost, A Choctaw Trail of Tears Story, by Tingle, Tim
**When A Ghost Talks, Listen, A Choctaw Trail of Tears Story, by Tingle, Tim
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* Extra recommended
** Wes loved me reading these aloud to him