A Practically Perfect Saturday

There are few Saturdays that we don’t have plans, either dinner or going away for the weekend, or anything that requires getting dressed.  After a long morning snooze, eating a Piper omelet is a great start to a day to a day of organizing taxes.

Kyla just Kyla-ed all day, which cumulated in a becoming an elegant queen by the day’s end.

Wesley, doing vertical push ups earlier in the week at martial arts, enjoyed a day of Lego-ing, building his new 3-in-1 kit.

Piper taught herself to latch hook this morning, and has happily spent the day doing that while listening to the Wings of Fire series, again.

I had a sign up that said “Shhhh…. I’m working on taxes” that everyone characteristically ignored.  And Dwayne spent the day in the office working on, then breaking, then fixing our finances.  Phew!

Excepting the taxes, which are still incomplete, it was a really, really good Saturday.  

Leavenworthy: Winter Edition

What did Wes really want for his birthday?  Traditionally, we go to Leavenworth for two nights, to play in the snow, enjoy the Christmas lights (they don’t take theirs down until February, either), and maybe eat enough gingerbread cookies to last us until our next visit.  This year, he had a twist: he wanted to bring along his best friend, A. That actually sounded good to us, as we like our island friends very much.  Once we found a house for the 13 of us on a 3 day weekend (thanks end-of-semester teacher work day!), we booked it and started counting down to one of my favorite weekends of the year. 
It was us and the two Whidbey families we spend so much time with, all under one roof with plenty of food, VR, chess, and snow.  I had a book and good friends, and my children were all well entertained, a recipe for a great weekend.

Once we were settled in, we took off looking for a good sledding hill.   
V is hardly terrified at all!

Wesley sees this and thinks, “What shall I aim for in an entire field of snow?  Oh, yes, definitely the thin ice.”

“Nailed it!”

Daddy.

Daddy, Daddy?

Daddy!!

A doesn’t need no stinkin’ sled.

I still haven’t ever seen this girl afraid.  She had a pretty cool move where she was able to slide right between her dad’s legs…with a surprising deficit of damage. 

Fearless and beautiful!

It’s hard to beat Kyla when it comes to sheer joy–even landing 20 feet from her sled.

Yep, the lovely, lovely house had a hot tub.

The next day’s adventure was began with an “escape room in the box” that was so much fun…even when we discovered Clue 4 & 5 were missing.  That afternoon, we were ready to work our bodies instead of our minds.  This was the first time cross country skiing for the 5 kids (the youngest one stayed back with his parents) and the rest of us had only gone a few times before.  

 I could do this sport all winter–it is so fun to trek through the snow!  We started late and pushed the kids about 6 or 7 of the 8km of the trail, leaving them at a trailhead to pick up, as it was getting dark.  

 

 The sheer pleasure of the fun exercise coupled with the beautiful scenery by the hatchery was one of the weekend’s highlights for me.   

 

 We didn’t want to leave the next day.

 So we didn’t.  Well, not until we went out for brats, played in the snow some more, completely fell apart (Piper), and recovered with one last stop at the Gingerbread Factory. 

 

Yep, once again proving that Leavenworth can get even better with friends!


Happy Birthday Wes! And Piper! and Taryn!

Happy Birthday, Wes!  My youngest is now double digits, and here’s hoping his brain is catching up.  I strongly remember being ten and becoming very aware of my own thinking; so much so that I told myself I may not believe myself when I was older, so I made a deliberate memory that I still keep of how important this age is.  

To celebrate as a family, we prioritized efficiency. Of the 7 “Kousins”, 4 have August birthdays* and the other 3 are January/February.  We hosted the Winter birthdays with brunch and birthday cake.  This year, one of the kids suggested crepes, and I found them surprisingly easy to do. We had both savory and sweet, and the kids quickly gobbled up the quart of whipping cream we had. #NotMyMetabolismAnymore
Food only goes so far. The real party is when most of the grown ups left, leaving the cousins to play for approximately 12 hours, and that’s only because the two littles have real bedtimes, and so went back to Gramma’s.  The girls snuggled up with a movie and the boys loved Legos and Minecraft. 



Dwayne and I got the pleasure of hanging out with Brian and Sandi for the day– so easy to chat with and just be together

Piper gave Wes the Minecraft creeper stuffed animal she knitted for him. 


Wes and Parker have identical Spiderman guys and hoody jammies–for boys so different (as in Parker has not made his mother seriously reconsider her life choices), they make the most of what they have in common.  Cecily is quite happy to not be them, but can move easily between the boys and the girls.  

Happy Birthday, Winters!  We’ll do this again next year. 

*counting Sept. 1 as August 32st, of course

Last Day of Being 9 Years Old

Which means that I have no more kids in the single-digits after today, but I really, really, REALLY like kids old enough to do fun things with…or better yet, leave them at home while doing fun things, so I’m not feeling particularly morose at this milestone.  That would be mining a shallow field. 

This kid has a few issues, but boy, can he balance on anything!  The balance ball is so beloved that he has a name: Frederick.  Frederick will carry Wes anywhere and helps him get through daily math lessons.  

 

Bye-bye age 9!  I think you will love being 10 almost as much as I did! (I still remember it being my favorite age.)

Snow Beautiful!

Schools were closed Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, but luckily, when your mom is your teacher, you don’t ever have to have a Snow Day!  (But I gave myself one on Monday.)


I pulled a Dwayne on this one and got them to go back outside 3 times, saying I wasn’t able to get a good shot.  Hopefully, it will be a few years before they read this post.  Kyla’s only to the early school years on her tour through our blog, so I’ve got time.
 

And this is why my, ahem, winter lights stay up so long. Yes, I don’t want the work of taking them down, but my excuse is because if there’s a chance of snow, my snowflake lights should still be on the pergola.  

And the birds.  We have both a hummingbird feeder and a regular bird feeder outside the kitchen window, and I enjoy seeing the winged traffic outside.  

Power stayed on and the kids were back on track by Thursday, and we won’t be around to make up any days this June, so let it snow!

Starting 2020 at the Cabin

We never make it out to the cabin as much as I want to, but after having paying guests regularly these holidays, we finally got to spend the first weekend at the cabin before regular life starts on Monday. 

One of the highlights for me was taking the kids on a walk through the trails at Castle Park.  And when I say “kids”, I should clarify that I wound up with only the kids I wanted to claim at the time. Just as we arrived at the park, Dwayne texted me to say he was driving off the ferry and heading toward the cabin. Simultaneously, I asked which kid had brought their communication device (smart phone, flip phone, GPS watch) with them: dead, no, nope.  So I said they couldn’t stay at the park while I went for a long walk; they had to come with me.  The girls were fine with it, but Wes began.  Began what?  Began being Whiney Wes.  To the mother that has had No Break from him since we started home schooling, and Extra No Break during the school holiday.  I called Dwayne and said his son was waiting for him in the parking lot, and he should come get him while the girls and I went for walk.  And Wes preferred being abandoned over walking through the forest.  

But my dragonets enjoyed the trails and can make anything into a parkour track. Kyla wears her Halloween dragon horns when she thinks of it, and I love her more for it.  Being wild and feral is part of Piper’s nature, and she gave me lots of encouragement for my single pull up I attempt each time we find ourselves at a playground.  
Now that Dwayne was at the cabin, so was our brand new VR headsets.  The cabin is not quite big enough for this, but between us and 3 other families, we had a lot of fun breaking them in. Hm, I meant the sets, but it’s pretty easy for a goggled person to hit someone walking by in the close quarters, so we all got broke. 

Luckily, there were cookies, blocks, and Minecraft to offer variety. 

 Oh, I love my cabin.  I wish I could go more often!

Happy New Year! Plunging into 2020

Doing slight introspection, I realized what I don’t like about Polar Bear dives is that they are crowded, so you have to park further away and walk–in winter, toward water, returning wet.  And there’s lots of people, and waiting around, and anticipation of a whistle at exactly the right time. This made me unenthusiastic about Double Bluff, or Kirkland, or Seattle, or Edmonds.

But there’s also a lake nearby our house.  With parking spots very close to the water.  And no official Polar Jump (though an unofficial one, perhaps of loosely connected Gold’s Gym members, judging by hoodies and duffles), so no crowds.  And a dock to jump off instead of trekking over yucky, rocky beach and shallows, inching our way to hypothermia.

So we picked up Piper and her BFF and headed over.  All the kids were enthusiastic about the jump and Dwayne was equally enthusiastic about not jumping. My lucky bikini made its annual trip out of the house and the towels were fresh out of the dryer.

While we were aiming for noon, it was a little more like 12:10 when we lined up and…..

JUMPED!
Well, Wes changed his mind. He preferred a slow walk in over the immediate terror and breathlessness of a plunge. And then he decided it’s more fun to stay warm and dry. Odd. 
Piper was amazing. Wes looks like he’s climbing out, too, but he’s just literally getting his toes wet.

BFF was just as enthusiastic, and a great sport.


Kyla is the reason I didn’t chicken out or even hesitate–she grabbed my hand when we were ready to jump!

What’s the deal about Polar Bear dives?  Well, it’s January 1st and the year can only get better from here.  And in an election year, that’s not a small consideration…

End of the Year Cleaning

I have found no way to work with Wesley all day on his room without finishing the day grouchy and tired enough to drown out any sense of accomplishment.  Thus it was today, but we are ending the year with less stuff in the house.

This is mostly clean–


This is fully cleaned, sorted, organized:

I finally got smart this time. I washed every single piece of clothing anywhere in his room. [Wes is happy to throw muddy socks in with clean shirts, and clean clothes on his shelves and dirty clothes in his dresser.] While all the washing/drying was happening, I let him have 30 minutes of screen time in exchange for 30 minutes of clothes-trying on later.  
One problem I have is that when I see him wearing pants that are too short and holey, I make a mental note to take them out of circulation next time I do laundry. But since all his pants are gray sweats, I lose track.  This time, as he tried on every piece, it went either into the dresser or into the donation bag.  And since everything was clean and dry, it can leave the house as soon as Goodwill opens in the 2020.  We significantly lessened his wardrobe, and now have only things that fit AND he will wear.  I surrendered and got rid of all the button up shirts I have ever bought him, even the cozy flannel ones.  He simply won’t wear buttons, especially has his idea of dressing up is not wearing PJs.  He has a sweater my mom knitted for him years ago that he throws over whatever slouchy clothes he’s wearing that day and considers himself well-dressed.  

That boy. Oh, boy.

Audible Stats


We win Audible! Kyla’s listening makes up the majority of the stats, but here’s what this year’s numbers are:

Total Hours Listened:  2,212 hours (there are 8,760 hours in a year, almost 6,000 waking hours).

Library of Approximately 250 titles.

Number of strongly worded letters encouraging Audible to make a shelving system so we can organize our library: 3.



Number of times that has worked: 0.